c1ey:
“Misandry is when the women’s bathroom is closer to your seat than the men’s washroom is. :c”
“Misandry is clubs offering free nights for girls and not for guys. :ccc”
“Misandry is having a women’s centre and not a men’s centre! We have needs too. :ccccccccc”
*tips le fedora to cover le mantears*Misandry is when they kick out your abused mom from a domestic violence shelter because you turned 13 and they don’t allow men in.
Misandry is having the court take custody of your children taken from you and given to your ex-wife even though anyone with half a brain can see she’s not fit to be their guardian
Misandry is the police arresting you for being stabbed by your abusive wife
Misandry is the idea that all men need to be taught not to rape.
Misandry is the idea that masculinity is toxic.
Misandry is telling all men that they’re oppressors.
Misandry is entire countries having laws and crime definitions that specifically and only punish men.
Misandry is demanding men not receive the same government funded abuse shelters as women have because of a personal opinion on only men being capable of domestic violence.
Misandry is ten thousand boys being murdered for being boys by terrorists with little to no media coverage, while just 200 girls being kidnapped by the same terrorists in the same areas get constant media attention and support from celebrities and politicians alike to protect them.
Misandry is having to sit in the principal’s office, bleeding from multiple scratches across the face, arms, and chest, covered in dirt and bruised to shit, and having to *apologize* to the girl who pushed you to the earth and attacked you for not wanting to play with her, because you gave her a black eye while trying to get her off of you.
Misandry is glorifying or ignoring women’s crimes, laughing or shifting blame whenever they murder, rape, or steal.
Misandry is going after people funding shelters for men, tearing down people who even try to help them, because they’re all “demons serving the patriarchy”.
Misandry is exploiting gender stereotypes in order to ruin people’s lives.
Misandry is being forced into a role, locked out of the luxury of certain choices that are basically guaranteed to be accessible to the other 50% of people in the world.
Misandry is the law saying men can’t be raped.
Misandry is being laughed at by peers or told you should’ve liked your sexual abuse.
Misandry is glorifying psycho girlfriends breaking their boyfriend’s shit and abusing them.
Misandry is men making up the overwhelming percentage of workplace deaths and all suicides.
Misandry is men not being able to express their emotions because people will accuse them of being gay or a pussy.
Misandry is when you get longer sentences than women for the same crime.
Misandry is the fact that men lack any reproductive rights
Misandry is the fact that it’s considered misogynistic to talk about any of the above problems, and feminists like @apupcalypse mock and belittle us for doing so.
Misandry is me being someone telling you you’re worse than cis men because you “chose” to transition
Misandry is seeing male patients in an in-patient facility little to no advice besides shaming
Misandry is hearing stories about your suicidal father getting little to no support because his abuser was his mom
Misandry is brushing off all the stories I can tell about men having their lives ruined by women as anecdotes while all the stories you can tell about women having their lifes ruined by men are proof that men are evil.
Misandry is being a father, not getting any money from the woman who you love, who wants to divorce you, who forces you into a trailer park. Then, your daughter is tricked into falsely accusing you of physical abuse upon the children so your wife can keep the kids. And of course, the majority of people believe the mother’s side of the story— because she’s a woman and therefore obviously not as threatening to the children.
When your daughter talks about her experience years later, she’s told to shut up, because her father didn’t try hard enough to keep her, while you were still trying to keep yourself off of the streets.
Misandry is 4 women killing a man who helps them change a flat tire.
Strippers accused of killing man who helped them change flat tire
Misandry is a girl gang assaulting a man and still getting a slap on the wrist.
Girl gang ‘sexually assault drunk footballer and chop VEGETABLES over his body’
Misandry is falsely accusing the man who stopped to help you fix your car.
Woman who accused man of assaulting her after fixing car made it up
Misandry is seeking sperm donor helping your gay friend and then turning around and suing him 16 years later.
Woman Sues Gay Friend For Child Support, 16 Years After He Donated Sperm To Her
Misandry is a man being forced to give up his semen so his ex-wife can get pregnant and then being forced to pay child support.
WOMEN’S RIGHTS? Man Forced To Allow Ex To Use Sperm To Get Pregnant - And Then Pay Child Support
Misandry is a feminist falsely accusing one of her own colleagues causing you suicide.
Male Feminist Wrongly Accused of Rape by Feminist Activist Commits Suicide - Daily Squib
Misandry is a feminist falsely accusing her best friend driving the kids to suicide.
Jan 12 - Woman’s false #metoo claim causes suicide of best friend
Misandry is a girl urging her troubled friend to go through with committing suicide.
Guilty Verdict for Young Woman Who Urged Friend to Kill Himself
Misandry is all your feminist forebears.
Now that i reblogged, the sjw gang is probably going to assault me since i agree with most of those 😂
And that is drumroll dot dot dot dot dot misandry.
@nah2binary You realize individuals exist right? PEOPLE can be misandrist even if the system ot whatever bullshit you believe in isn’t
Misandry needs a body, aka, systematically needs to exist prior in order to ducument individualised cases of misandry. It’s a sociological concept with no ground because it’s an ideology inherently discussing social groups. Otherwise it’s just violence and we already have terms to describe it, such as the “Abuse”, there’s no need to suggest that women have historically systematically been in power over men, because that’s incorrect. Misandry is a term that needs context, such as history and power-dynamics over another social group of people for it to be legitimate. I’m fully here to talk about the high suicide rates of men, men being unable to gain custody of children, ect, ya know, Actually acknowledge how and why these things are happening instead of claiming “it’s because of women in power” and not because of a capitalist misogynist system hurting other men.
Hey bitch. Countless SYSTEMIC issues were listed and shows you didn’t read shit.
Sociology is a bullshit degree that is not even the same in every country and is susceptible to propaganda. Sociology ain’t shit. This here are facts. No matter how you try to minimize it like every other feminist rotten cunt says. The issues exist. Women ARE responsible for them just as men are.
Misandry has history and powerdynamics. Stop treating men like a monolith.
This is your brain on your collectivism.
For a group of people that hate women being domestic feminist sure love sweeping everything under the rug.
“MiSaNdRy NeEdS tO bE sYsTeMiC!!!”
Gender gap in prison sentences, gender gap in child custody, gender gap in mental health resources, rape laws explicitly excluding men, government resources explicitly labelling men as abuser by default (primarily the Duluth Model), lack of reproduction rights, lack of protection of bodily autonomy, lack of freedom to vote (in America, men receive the gift of being able to vote for signing their body over to the Selective Service, aka the draft).
And that’s just to name the few off the top of my head.
Every single one of those are systemic in nature.
@nah2binary @c1ey You’re both full of shit that were looking to defend blind hatred of men, rather than even consider that it isn’t an either/or situation.
> instead of claiming “it’s because of women in power”
The NOW (the largest Feminist organisation in the world) actively blocked shared custody by default. The Duluth Model was implemented by Feminists.
What’s worse, nobody, not a single fuckin’ person, was blaming women as a whole. That was entirely you with your projection and how you perceive everything through Conflict Theory.
Pull your head from your ass. You’re the kind of dumbfuck that would have fallen for and passed The Grievance Studies. Quit trying to protect your hatred by acting like it’s everyone else, scumbag.
I like how the one cosmobrain literally says “misandry can’t exist because my beliefs only allow for binary forms of systemic oppression, so men AND women can’t be oppressed at the same time. Also, misandry and misogyny are solely defined by sociologists. Pay no attention to how the vast majority of people who use both terms aren’t remotely sociologists, because I have no idea how language works.”
And the ol’ “women get all their shelters by themselves. I have no idea that women’s shelters often receive government funding from the supposedly misogynist Patriarchy, or that Erin Pizzey got donations for the first women’s shelter in the UK from men.”
Also, domestic abuse isn’t necessarily the result of sexism, especially when it’s often mutual. IIRC, the strongest predictor is growing up in a household where abuse is happening, even if you’re not the victim. Not to mention how a male abuser of a woman could easily be bisexual, and equally likely to abuse women and men for non-gendered reasons.
I see a lot of feminists who treat “abused women = misogyny” like a universal truth, and not one has ever backed it up. And they sure don’t discuss lesbians, who are supposedly most likely to be abusive of any normal monogamous gender combination.
Violence is often the result of complex factors and causes, and feminist “analysis” of DV is more like someone with a hammer looking for a nail.
Misandry is looking at a mile-long list of problems created by hatred of, or narcissistic disdain for men, and absolving the perpetrators because you think hatred of a specific group of humans can’t exist when applied to one specific group of humans.
Seeing my old deactivated self’s aggression makes me proud.
Ok………
The reason why misandry doesn’t exist is the same reason as why things like reverse racism and heterophobia do not exist. Misogyny is based on a system of oppression towards women from men, and the way society is set up, women cannot oppress men.
Literally every single issue that has been listed in this thread was created by men.
>gender gap in prison sentences
73% of most judges in America are men (https://www.americanprogress.org/issues/courts/reports/2019/10/03/475359/building-inclusive-federal-judiciary/) it is men who are doing the sentencing most of the time. You’re not even addressing the fact that most of the men being sentenced in this case are black, being sentenced by white judges. It’s based moreso on racism than “misandry” if anything
>gender gap in child custody
Custody decisions are usually made in family court, where once again, most of the judges are men. This is not a problem created by women. The idea that men are not capable of being caretakers is a direct offshoot from the claim that women can only be caretakers
>rape laws explicitly excluding men/lack of reproductive rights/selective service/“lack of protection of bodily autonomy” whatever that means
Most lawmakers (at least in America) are male. It is men making these laws and deciding that men can’t be raped (which does in fact come from toxic masculinity) And also you need to realize that it’s not necessarily easier for women on this front, rape is second to robbery as the least-solved violent crime, and only 32% are ever closed (https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2018/12/27/rape-cases-clearance-rate-hits-low-despite-metoo/2421259002/)
>government resources that explicitly label men as the abuser
The Duluth Model that you are referring to, is not so much an example of misandry, as it is an anti-domestic violence program done incorrectly. It ultimately doesn’t help female victims either and the person who founded it had not even made it with minority communities in mind. This is simply evidence of the government not taking the issue of domestic violence seriously in general.
These problems were not created by feminists, (many of them, in fact existed before feminism) they were not created out of women’s disdain for men. These are examples of the patriarchy also harming men, due to misguided notions of how men should be.
You are just wrong period
Not what I wrote, are you? That’s fine, Im not a miracle worker and I didnt expect a few lines of text to fix whatever T H I S (this, meaning you) whole mess is.
I can only hope that the people who follow you can read it and consider a different perspective.
That being said since you are clearly not in the mood for serious debate I can say this: fuck you, you’re an abomination and God hates you ❤️ Leviticus 18:22
Your perspective isn’t new unique or smart. It hinges on assumptions we don’t believe and historical revisionism or blatant disregard for what feminism did like when feminists protested against gender neutral rape laws.
You haven’t brought in everything new that we haven’t debunked, considered and dismissed.
We don’t subscribe to patriarchy theory so your arguments simply don’t work.
I’ve sourced all of my arguments, none of it is based on “theory” it’s all based on things that have actually happened, on actual statistics. Show me the assumptions, or historical revisionism that’s present in any of what I’ve just said, right now.
I’m sorry but men having internalized misandry doesn’t suddenly make the issues not systemic and feminists rallying against any change and even protesting for discrimnatory laws such as the duluth model or propagating violent misandry such as Donna Hylton being a women’s march speaker and the white feather movement where they are a cause of the deaths of many young men makes them absolutely responsible for some of the issues we face.
Unless you wanna play that game which I can play.
Fat shaming
Online harassment
Domestic abuse
Child abuse
Are no longer issues for women because a woman is more likely to inflict it than a man.
Ezclap
Women’s issues are solved!
The Duluth model isn’t an inherently misandrist program, because it isn’t systemic, and it largely doesn’t help female victims of domestic violence. Just because it was created by a single feminist doesn’t mean it was part of any systemic plot to oppress men like misogyny is. The Duluth model is carried out, largely by other men, and it is largely men in charge of these domestic violence programs.
Please explain to me how women having a march is an example of male oppression, at all. Just because TERFs were there and happened to say shitty things? How were men hurt by that event at all.
The white feather movement that you speak of is not an example of “systemic misandry” either because these women weren’t responsible for the war. They weren’t the ones personally demanding these men to go to war. They werent simply doing it of their own accord, they were encouraging it because the cultue at the time made it so that men were obligated to be soldiers, it was men who created this culture because it was men who started this war and men who decided that only men should go fight and die for their country.
And I don’t see what kind of game your playing here with those last points
>fat shaming
Women do engage in fat shaming amongst each other. But you fail to address what compells women to do this. Let’s not even ignore the fact that men in general do not get fat shamed to the same degree that women do and never will, ultimately the issue of fatphobia will harm women more than men. And why is that? Because fat shaming exists to support a beauty standard created by men. Sure some women are cruel simply to be cruel but you can’t deny how many of them do simply do it for the benefit of other men. (read: pick-me’s)
>domestic abuse/child abuse
Women are more likely to be the victims of domestic violence than men are, it’s ultimately a feminist issue because of how our largely male-dominated society views men and women and the idea of marriage. At the end of the day, it is men doing the convicting and the arresting in these cases, and for a long time it was men who said these women couldn’t get divorced from their partners. Also, no one ever said child abuse was a women’s issue, in the first place, and even then there are more male judges, more male cops, and these are the people in charge of arresting and convicting these abusers. They don’t choose to not convict these women not out of a desire to protect them from consequences, but the misogynistic idea that a women are naturally motherly and simply couldn’t fathom hurting their child in any way.
>women’s issues are solved
Honeslty the fact that you can fix your mouth to act like these even scratch the surface of what women deal with just proves you don’t know shit about feminism. Go back to whacking off to anime muscle men fudgepacker and save the intelligent discussions for ppl who can have them!
>the duluth model isbt inherently misandrist
Literally braindead energy
I guess things in your opinion are systemic depending on your opinion or patriarchy theory.
Yes actuallly did make that culture not men. Women forced men to soldiers!
Look I can make assumptions too!
Now you’re just saying nonsense, if you don’t have the mental capacity to actually debate this for real just say so. Not to mention you have nothing to say in regards to any of my other points.
Unless you haven’t noticed none of your points are worth a damn because they are just “patriarchy fault”.
I can take every women’s issue and say “gynocentrism fault”
For your arguments to work you need me to subscribe to your basic ideology and believe that men miraculously decided everything in society and that patriarchy isn’t a bogus theory.
Fine then, if men do not have societal power then explain why there are so many men in positions of power. Are you going to claim that’s a coincidence? You can’t argue with any of the statistics I’ve presented here. Globally, and especially in the USA, there are more men as CEOs, making laws, and sentencing people to jail. That is simply an undeniable fact
Men occupy the social extremes as part of their utilitarian function in society. Very few occupy the highest ranks , so the majorty who occupy the lowest of society as working drones trying to gain any security and strive to be on the top. Bottom extreme men always have the worst, most oppressive and dangerous jobs - which is male disposability.
Men are given the illusion of power and then get used to death so society can continue functioning on their corpses.
Another thing is that women have a lot more power that you give them credit - being the caretakers they instill any values in society. Mothers put a divide between men subtly as they try to make men fight eachither to protect women or fight for their sake - mothers often manipulate sons to hate their own fathers
Both factions hold singificant power.
The biggest weakness of men is the illusion of strength
The buggest strength of women is the illusion of weakness.
Women control which men get born and how they are raised. They control which men get to have kids.
If men had all the moral power, feminism wouldn’t be as powerful as it is and mens movements would be exalted to a kevel of religiosity. Reality is the opposite
(via emperor-of-bara)
Twitter is uhhhhh
You know you’re a shitty parents when you expect some fun blue hair man on the internet to do your job as a parent for you.
The USA is too obsessed with ‘race’.
Great country… But would be even greater if people stopped obsessing over skin pigmentation.
What a moronic thing to judge someone by, on any level.
"— Zuby (via deeplifequotes)